To Dress My Age?

I just turned 50 & I am having some problems as to how to dress my age. I want to be stylish but not look as if I am "trying too hard," if you get what I mean. I am 5'3", 115 pounds, with dark brown hair 3" past my shoulders, and fair skin. Cutting my hair is not an option; I have to keep my husband happy! Any suggestions regarding my wardrobe? I just started a consulting business, which I will be marketing to other business women & men. The majority of my potential clients dress in casual business attire. Thanks so much for any advice you can give me!


The general guidelines for business wardrobes apply here. The only difference above a certain age (30?) is the items that go into making a business wardrobe; they should be high quality, fit perfectly, and in excellent condition. Although a teen may be excused for some variations in fit, and fabric, this does not apply to you.

For business casual, with a client based business, this is even more important. For your specific height&weight, you will need to avoid any childlike styles, such as puffy short sleeves and Maryjane flats.

Start with a suit, and separate the pieces (you may wear them together for important meetings.) Take the pants, and add a coordinating top, such as a wrap top, and find another jacket to go over. Stay with menswear fabrics, such as fine wools and tweeds. No denim or unpressed khaki twill. Take the jacket of the suit, and find another skirt, or other pants. Remember to look for shoes when you have the garments in hand, and have the clothes shortened for the shoes. Medium heel pumps, or wedges, in patent or suede will work for you. A jacket is the key to authoritative dressing. Be sure that the shoulders fit perfectly.

If your long hair is glowing, smooth, and cut into a discernible style, it is an asset for you. Untrimmed long hair, pulled back into a low, thin ponytail, has the opposite effect.

Remember to update your bra size, make-up and nails. Review old accessories, and abandon passe items such as skin tone sheer stockings, and substitute modern alternatives, like tinted sheers, opaques, semi-opaques, and patterned and textured tights.
Here's a jacket with matching pants. And here's a jacket to add to the mix.